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Dear {!firstname_fix}
Did you miss me...? Probably not - you've probably been on your hols just
like me. I went to Jersey, had a lovely time - and that's why you've missed a
couple of newsletters. Where did you go - if you went away? Or perhaps you
haven't taken a break just yet? If you haven't - make sure you get one
soon....the way the economic news has been going in the past few days we're all
likely to be facing more gloom and doom for years to come. Take a break - not
because you might not get one in the future, but because your brain needs it.
You'll come back refreshed ready to face the world no matter what the economic
indicators are like. Rest and recuperation - few people I know value them as much as
they should. I don't either.
YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED:
How quickly should you reply to emails?
Bing bong - there's another email in your inbox. Go on,
have a look, why don't you? Answer it straight away...! Yes, email can be
distracting and can take you away from what you should be focusing on. But at
the same time we also know the annoyance and frustration if we don't get a
relatively rapid reply to our emails.
For businesses this can be a real issue. Years ago, when
we only had phones, I recall some research from the fledgling BT which showed
that most phone callers gave up if the call was not answered within 16 seconds -
the space of four rings. That meant that business people had to go on training
courses about answering the phone quickly; new departments had to be set up so
that calls could be answered rapidly.
Now, with email, people also expect a speedy response.
But how quick is quick? Research shows us there is a mis-match in the definition
of speedy between the sender and the recipient. On average, the studies show
that when people email a business most expect a reply sometime during the same
day. Only around 15% of people actually expect a response within two hours.
However, when you ask business recipients of email, they tell a different story.
Some 45% of them claim that the sender would want a reply inside two hours -
that's three times greater than the actual requirement.
Indeed, studies suggest that about 5% of senders of
emails to businesses are happy if they get a reply within the week. But all
businesses appear to believe that replies must be provided at worst within the same day.
It appears that businesses are putting themselves under
more pressure than is necessary. It is rather like trying to answer the phone in
one ring, instead of the acceptable four.
So, don't put yourself under pressure to answer emails
too quickly. The best way to avoid this is to accept that the vast majority of your
emailers will be happy if you get back to them the same day. That means you do
not need to have your email constantly being checked every 30 minutes. Just
manually checking your emails two or three times each day is enough. If it
is really urgent, you'll get a phone call.
Plus if you only check your emails three times a day, you
won't be so distracted, allowing you to focus on your real work. It is just a
reminder that you do not need to let technology rule you...!
WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK:
Act now - tomorrow may not arrive
Two days ago I was shocked and saddened to hear that my friend, Ian Hendry,
had died. He was the founder of the highly successful business lead system,
WeCanDoBiz and we had spoken on the same
platform at several conferences and events. He contracted meningitis just a
short while ago and did not recover. Ian was a few years younger than me, had a
contagious sense of humour, was extremely bright and engaged his audiences with
his breadth and depth of knowledge and his charm. I, for one, will miss him. His
death reminded me of the fragility of our existence - we never believe "it will
happen to us". But, inevitably it will. My mother says there is no point in
being "the richest person in the graveyard". And, like mothers generally are,
she is right. We must enjoy life to the full, whether that means offline or
online, and we should do our utmost to do what we want now - for tomorrow for
many people will not actually arrive. I very much hope that on my deathbed I
won't be saying "I wish I'd saved more for a rainy day" or "I wish I'd done all
the things I really wanted to rather than waiting until the time was right". I want to be saying "I had a fantastic time and
I'm glad I've spent the lot".
THIS WEEK'S "MUST BUY":
Do It! Or Ditch It

Lack of action is actually what holds back many businesses. I see this online a
great deal - indeed I know of people who have been "going to start their blog
soon" for at least the past 18 months. Oh come on..! How long does it take you
to get organised...? The problem is largely lack of decision making. There are
so many conflicting ideas and suggestions that people naturally want to get the
next bit of the jigsaw before they make their final decision. And when they have
that jigsaw piece, guess what? The jigsaw has got bigger or changed shape, so
they need just another piece. And so on. Thankfully this new book from Bev James
(who helped found The Entrepreneur's Business Academy with former Dragon James
Caan) should put a stop to all that. In a practical, no-nonsense way, this book
provides you with eight simple steps that allow you to focus on what matters so
you can make the right decisions and take your business forward. I suspect that
I know a couple of would-be bloggers who ought to read it...!
To find out more please visit:
http://uklik.me/doitorditchit
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simply visit:
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Kind Regards

Graham Jones
Internet Psychologist
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